It’s hard to judge the talk from this.
It seems that you want to both recruit people to work on the solution, and discuss what the solutions should be (and maybe even what the problems are).
It also seems that you want to tell volunteers what their priorities should be – and that’s not likely to work (unless you’re hiring).
Last time, the discussion took a wrong turn (for which I apologize again).
I don’t think arguing via text will work; would you be open for a real-time chat? I’d try to understand your concerns better, and suggest what you could do. If you’re at EuroPython next week, catch me there; if not DM me to schedule a call the week after that.