Need reconsideration of bpo-34975: Add start_tls() method to streams API

Can bpo-34975: Add start_tls() method to streams API from 2019 be reopened and reconsidered? The added method allows to turn encryption on on demand (and off, as the author expressed his readiness a week ago).

Initially it was closed in favor of a new asyncio streams API but later the API was cleanly reverted because it was overloaded and deeply text-oriented.

This feature is required to port test package (namely, dummy FTP and mail servers) to asyncio.start_server() instead of low-level recv-esque work with an event loop.