Shedding light on a three-month suspension

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Usually, in our wider societies, we find fault in, and so avoid any one entity becoming both judge, jury, and executioner. (As well as wanting transparency).

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I just thought that I might post a link-to-a-link to a past discussion/blog post to make the point that we have been and are discussing our opinions on past events and although people may feel attacked personally - some of that feeling may be due to a preponderence of opinions shared that are counter to ones own.

Peace.

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Luckily, this is not the case in this situation either. At the very least there are three entities: The CoC WG, the SC and the moderators. Ofcourse there is some overlap, but e.g. the discourse moderators who had to deal with Tim’s post beforehand explicitly excused themselves from the CoC decision as to not be accused of a conflict of interest.

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A subset did IIRC

That really gets to the heart of the matter. To many readers (me included) the list of accusations was weak on the face of it. Some were petty, most were cherry picked, some were specious and contrived, some were clear misrepresentations of the OP’s posts, and some had a clear ideological bias.

The ban notice was one-sided and did not give the OP credit for any his efforts to have his points land softly or to acknowledge other points of view. The notice seemed like a poorly crafted effort to completely demonize the poster in order to justify the decision. So as you said so well, “It certainly doesn’t make me very convinced about the fairness of the guidelines, nor their enforcement.”

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In what context could I have mentioned it? @gussis was correct: the last time I mentioned the bylaws topic, or the vote, was well before the vote even started. Nor did anyone else mention it to me again. I was done with it when the deadline for affirming intention to vote arrived. Never another word after.

If you’re unhappy that total silence didn’t mention that change #3 won by a landslide, happy to acknowledge it now that someone else resurrected the issue: yes, #3 won by a landslide. And I expected it would all along.

The rest here isn’t in reply to Al. This is just a convenient place to say it.

People mostly resent hearing about potential flaws in foundational matters (e.g., ask anyone working in security). My purpose in that topic was to try to get answers from the Board. I had no actual interest in debating with the voting members, and repeatedly told them “suit yourself”. But anyone advancing a minority view gets lots of replies in opposition, and I nearly always took the time to reply to each, out of consideration for their time and effort in replying to me. If I had it to do over again, ya, I’d reply to very little. The only replies that advanced my purposes were the rare ones from PSF representatives. “Mere” voters couldn’t answer my questions; only the Board could, although after much effort Thomas and Brett eventually divulged clues.

And, yes, I did think I was special enough to persistently push for answers. I was a founding member of the PSF, worked hard to create it, and was on its Board for its first 13 years. Nobody on the planet had more standing to question a Board power play. All animals are equal, but at times a tardigrade just can’t push as hard as an elephant :wink:. It was far more my perceived duty to push than it was in any way fun or personally gratifying.

I tried to have some fun with it anyway. I almost always do, but that backfired hugely. Lesson learned. Tedious earnestness is on the menu now.

And so is replying to little. In fact, I’m done with this entire Discourse topic with this post.

My gratitude to all who spoke up. But my ban is history now, so transition toward better processes for the next one. All sides are so rigidly dug in on this one that I don’t expect we’ll ever get more clarity or transparency about it. I believe I already did more than my share on those counts.

If I feel a need to pick over the bones of my ban, I’ll do it on my blog instead. Yes, some parts of my blog are blunt and accusatory, but nobody sees them unless they go out of their way to find them. It’s not Discourse, although the vast bulk of it remains civil. The blunt parts have to be blunt to get across how outrageously wrong some things here appear to me. Few people have ever seen me angry (because I rarely am!), and suppressing that would have been disingenuous.

If you want to keep at it here, on Discourse, please keep it factual and dispassionate, and especially so if you disagree with what was done. It doesn’t help anything to get your posts hidden here, or for your Discourse account to get suspended. Then you have no voice at all. While I intend to stay out of it here, I enjoy reading, and profit from, what all have to say (pro or con). So, for my sake, keep your voice intact here :smile:.

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I’m breaking my intention to stay out of this here to say something nice to Al: welcome to my world. Even such a brief visit can be … educational. I’m glad you survived it :smile:.

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Python was great for me, being an introvert. Gosh I hate politics, but sometimes…

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The scope of that was strictly limited to interactions before the ban was announced. It said nothing about anything after the announcement, or about any of the specific claimed charges.

I since went on to address all of those too, again being as open and transparent as ethically possible. While I endorse Chris McDonough’s analyses, we didn’t collaborate, and I told him nothing during the pre-publication review that wasn’t already publicly known.

My own analyses differ in some respects, in one case disclosing info that wasn’t publicly known, and in a few cases with somewhat different guesses about what some of the vaguer charges may have been about. Links to commentary about all the charges are conveniently arranged on a single page now.

Accounts of interactions after the ban announcement are scattered across my “Ban Q&A” page, and I’m content to leave it that way. While I believe I’ve made a full account of “my side” of those too now, there is no larger coherent story I have to tell about post-announcement interactions. Just details.

I can’t really guess about the newer material. The pre-ban account was dry as toast. Some of the newer material is blunt, and a few parts exude “righteous outrage”. So don’t look at if if you’re a fan of the way this ban was sold and can’t tolerate opposition. I won’t even link to the new parts directly, just point to the top-level “PSF topics” page.

Note: this is just FYI. I’m not looking for an argument here. I know many people are still curious, and today I believe I finished disclosing everything material about “my side”.

What would be interesting to me is someone who looked into a claimed “CoC violation” (not just “I take it on trust”) and agrees with it. I haven’t yet seen anyone do so, neither on the PSF’s Discourse, nor on any other site. Quite the contrary. Ban supporters seem to studiously avoid mentioning any of the claimed violations. “Dark patterns”, sure, but not specific claims.

If nobody can be found who agrees with them, what “lesson” can possibly be learned from them?

If you do agree with one or more, I won’t bite you. I’ll gratefully take it into account, and won’t even reply unless you say you want to discuss it. Of course you can’t post anything in a public space without risking some opposition, but there’s no need for anyone here to be uncivil or accusatory, Play nice :smile:.

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Welcome back, Tim. I’ve always enjoyed reading your posts here (and your contributions on stackoverflow.com). It’s great to have you back!

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